Aggressive child: tips for parents
If a baby bites, hits you or other children, breaks toys, this does not mean that your child is difficult. Perhaps by behaving aggressively towards others, the kid is trying to get your attention, to know the limits of what he is allowed to, or to feel his own significance. Or is it a crisis of age and the definition of a new status. In any case, the child must be sure of parental love and know that mom and dad will always understand him and help.
Some children go to another room, to the kitchen, to the bathroom and close there, trying to cope with anger and resentment on their own. Such situations are especially difficult when parents want to talk to the baby, stop it, and an angry, aggressive child does not obey. What to do? The answer is simple - leave your child alone for at least half an hour. When the baby calms down, you can calmly talk to him.
If the child bites, rushes at you with fists, squeeze it in a tight embrace and carry it out of the room. This is a good way to divert attention and show that you will not allow yourself to be insulted. Calmly explain to your child that you understand his anger and irritation, but do not allow him to rush at you or attack other people.
To scold and shame your child at this moment is useless, because it is from you the same aggression, only passive. In addition, it is unlikely that the child will listen to the notations at this moment and correctly perceive them. Tell your baby in a calm tone that you, too, sometimes get angry, especially when you have something wrong. The child should know that you are condemning his act, not his own.
Teach your son or daughter to cope with feelings of anger and irritation. Explain that you can take a piece of paper and tear it, beat a pillow with your fists or bite a pencil. It is important that the baby does not tolerate aggression on people, animals, on all living beings.
Sometimes parents allow an aggressive child to do whatever he wants, as long as he calms down. In doing so, they show the kid that with an attack, shouts, tantrums you can achieve a lot.At the same time, the authority of the parents suffers, in which the child sees support and a guarantee of security.
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